Discipline of Children
Out of parental concern and a desire to
teach our young son responsibility, we require him to phone home when he
arrives at his friend’s house a few blocks away. He began to forget,
however, as he grew more confident in his ability to get there without
disaster befalling him. The first time he forgot, I called to be sure he
had arrived. We told him the next time it happened, he would have to
come home. A few days later, however, the telephone again lay silent,
and I knew if he was going to learn, he would have to be punished. But I
did not want to punish him. I went to the telephone, regretting that his
great time would be spoiled by his lack of contact with his father. As I
dialed, I prayed for wisdom. “Treat him like I treat you,” the Lord
seemed to say. With that, as the telephone rang one time, I hung up. A
few seconds later the phone rang, and it was my son.
“I’m here, Dad!”
“What took you so long to call?” I
asked.
“We started playing and I forgot. But
Dad, I heard the phone ring once and I remembered.”
How often do we think of God as One who
waits to punish us when we step out of line? I wonder how often he rings
just once, hoping we will phone home.
Dennis Miller
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